the quality of your life can not be measured by the standards of others.
just started reading.
the girl who plays with fire. i think lisbeth salander is an amazing character. Her development from since the first book..no more words i will just read now
it’s taken me a while.
to get to this point.where the things i enjoy sexually don’t embarrass me or make me feel guilty. There was a time when I use to feel bad for even having certain thoughts. But I am at a point in my life where i’ve embraced my sexuality. I don’t have to answer to anyone and it feels damn good. It is such a “freeing” feeling. Whether it’s choking, bondage, role-play I embrace the things that excite me.
one of the sexiest things for me.
is not being needed. let me explain. being with or around people who handle their business. makes my mouth water. a person who doesn’t need me to be their mother,their babysitter, or their personal atm. it is such a relief to meet people who are independent.
“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.”
anais nin
a beautiful night in chicago.
i am sitting by the window listening to sade’s promise album on the record player in just and over sized t-shirt. The breeze feels amazing against my skin. There is no where else I’d rather be.
& i have a girl date tomorrow at the beach!
Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex.
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| — | Dorian Solot, I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. (via historicalslut) |
